This week, we welcome Sarena Provost, Indigenous Manager, to share a story about how a lesson in traditions and culture became an opportunity for a youth to express their individuality and creativity.
In February, our YMCA Brave Dogs Clan youth took part in a sewing project focused on Ribbon Skirts and Drum Bags. Before we began sewing, I joined the group to share the teachings of Ribbon Skirts. I was fortunate to pass on the teachings I received from Cree/Metis Elder Doreen Spence. Ribbon Skirts are a spiritual connection to our grandmothers, mothers, and strong Indigenous women, both those who are with us today and those who have passed on. The skirts symbolize the teachings of our grandmothers, wrapping around us and keeping us connected to Mother Earth. The vibrant colors and ribbons represent our spirits. These skirts are not just about grandmother teachings; they also symbolize survival through cultural genocide and pride in our Indigenous ancestry. I also shared the Mother Earth teaching of the drum with those making drum bags for their hand drums. The beat of the drum is the heartbeat of Mother Earth, and it is a direct connection to the Creator. Drum bags are important as they keep our drums safe and protected.
It was fascinating to watch the students design their pieces, choosing color schemes and placing ribbons. Everyone was excited to learn how to sew and eager to create their own Ribbon Skirts and Drum Bags. One youth, who identifies as they/them, initially did not want to sew but preferred to observe. When I approached them, I suggested they might like to create something different. We discussed how ribbons could be added to anything, like a shirt or even shorts. They asked if they could make ribbon pants. Although we didn’t have a pattern for pants, we worked together and made one from scratch. This youth created a beautiful pair of ribbon pants, and they were incredibly proud of them. They couldn’t wait to show their family. I was so proud of them, too. They followed their heart and didn’t give up, even when things got tricky and we had to take the seams out a few times. In the end, they made a unique and creative pair of pants they were happy with. As a staff team, we were so pleased, and it taught us that cultural teachings and practices can meet youth where they are.
Once everyone had finished their projects, we were honoured with a visit from Elder Doreen Spence, who blessed each skirt, pant and drum bag. It was a heartwarming experience for the youth to hear her story, teachings, and prayers. She also blessed each of them individually.